• Life

    Currently, June 2018

    Two blog posts in one week?! Who even am I? Things feel like they are starting to finally be easier and Shane has been napping for longer stretches so I’m truly hoping to be able to blog more consistently. Let’s see what we’ve been up to recently, shall we?

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    T R A V E L I N G

    We just came home from a week in Florida to visit my grandparents. It was the first time they met Shane and it was so special. It went pretty well, although it was quite exhausting traveling with a baby. The picture above is us in the airport. Having Shane in that carrier was awesome for navigating the airport. He did so great!

    G R I L L I N G

    We actually just got a grill for the first time this year and we have been using it a bunch. I’ve made this salad a couple of times recently and it is amazing. It’s perfect for lunches or sides for dinner. We’ve also been eating way too many cheeseburgers since the weather has warmed up. Definitely need to take a break from eating those for a while!

    E X P L O R I N G

    We just explored the Blue Springs State Park in Orange City, Florida. We also went there last year and had the most fun. The park is home to manatees during certain times of year. When we were in Florida last April we got the chance to boat with them (pictured above)! It was one of the coolest things. Unfortunately though this year it was too late in the season so we just walked around the park instead.

    P L A N T I N G

    We haven’t gotten to it yet, but I mentioned to Tommy that I’d like to plant a little garden in our front yard this year. If you have any tips for me, send them my way! I’ve never really planted a garden before but am looking forward to it this year.

    P L A Y I N G

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    Board games! While we were in Florida we picked up the games Risk and Scattergories and had a lot of fun playing those at my grandparents house. My favorite is definitely Risk. Definitely check that one out if you are looking for a new board game to play. It’s definitely pricey, but worth it in my opinion.


    So that’s a little bit of what we’ve been up to the past month. What have you been up to? I’d love to hear from you!

    Linking up with Anne and Owen.


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  • Baby

    Shane Thomas: Four Months

    Hi guys! This post is so late, but better late than never right! 😉 This month has been such a busy one. We just came back from a week-long vacation to Florida to visit my grandparents and before that we were so busy just preparing for the trip. I will share all about how that went in either a vacation recap or in Shane’s 5 month update. He did so great, but traveling with a baby is exhausting – holy cow lol. Anyways, here’s his 4 month update. I can’t believe how fast time is flying by!

    Size: At his four month doctor’s appointment he was exactly 13 pounds on the dot. He was 24.5 inches long and his head was 15.7 inches. He is now in 3-6 month clothes or just 6 month clothes in some brands and size 2 diapers. I can’t believe how big he is already!

    Sleep: Sleep has been about the same as last month. He wakes up just once to eat around 1-2 am. He then almost always wakes up at 5 and I usually bring him to bed with me since Tommy has already left for work. I usually can get him back to sleep without feeding him, but sometimes I have to nurse him again at this time.

    His naps have been wonderful the past month though. He sleeps for about 2-2.5 hours for this first 2 naps and about 40 mins for his last nap before bed around 8-9.

    I always thought I was going to be one of those moms who had a very strict schedule when it came to eating and sleeping but I’m not like that at all. Normally Shane’s up for about 1.5-2 hours before going back down for a nap. I realized that it’s honestly much less stressful to not try to keep everything exactly at the same time. I realized that once he’s older it might be a lot easier to do this and more important so we will be more strict with times when I feel it’s necessary. This loose schedule works really well for us now so I don’t want to change it at all.

    Loves: Shane still loves when his daddy comes home from work. You can always tell how happy he is, it’s so cute. He also loves when you sing to him. Honestly he loves most things, he is a super happy baby.

    Hates: Honestly the only thing I can say that he hates is being overly tired but I’m pretty sure that’s any baby. If he gets too tired, he will literally start yelling at me to put him down for a nap. It’s actually kind of funny.

    Milestones: Shane’s personality has really started to shine through this month. He’s grown so much it’s crazy. He really lets us know now when he wants or doesn’t want something.

    Shane can interact a lot more now and play a lot more with his toys and it’s so much fun.

    He also laughs a lot more this month and can really recognize his parents. We love him so very much!


    PS. I definitely will be sharing our breastfeeding journey eventually. It has honestly been one of the most challenging and rewarding things I’ve ever done. I’ve learned so much about being a mom from going through these struggles. I haven’t been able to exactly put it into words just yet, but I think I’m getting there! 😉

  • Baby

    Newborn Essentials: Age 0-3 Months

    Hi friends! It has been way too long! I am loving mom life but it is kicking my butt! Any free time I have, all I want to do is drink a cup of coffee and veg out in front of the TV. So that’s what I’ve been doing with no shame because mom life is exhausting but I’d really love to start blogging again. Today I’m sharing with you what was absolute essentials for us during Shane’s first three months of life.
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    ONE: Comotomo Baby Bottle If you are planning on breastfeeding, these bottles are absolutely awesome. I have used these bottles from the first week of my baby’s life and he has gone back and forth between bottle and breast using Comotomo bottles for four months now. They are also SO easy to clean, which is an added bonus!

    TWO: Skip Hop Activity Gym– This play gym has been a lifesaver for me. For the past two months, Shane has LOVED his play gym. When I need to eat breakfast or lunch, I just lay him on his play gym and he goes to town playing. It can keep him busy for so long!

    THREE: Velcro Swaddles– Oh my gosh, velcro swaddles are such a lifesaver too! I especially love the ones that you can choose whether or not you swaddle with the arms in or out.

    FOUR: Sleepers– Some people prefer zipper sleepers over button ones but I think each has their own benefits. The zipper ones are a bit faster but the button ones are nice because you can only open the bottom half of the sleeper and don’t have to expose your baby’s entire chest when changing their diaper.

    FIVE: Yoga Ball– This one may seem random but oh my gosh we would not have survived without it in those early newborn days. For the last month of my pregnancy I used a yoga ball to try to encourage labor to start. I think this made the motion of bouncing comforting to Shane after he was born. Honestly the only way we could get him to sleep was to hold him upright on the ball and bounce. A. Complete. Lifesaver.

    SIX: Graco Pack ‘n Play– We actually haven’t used the bassinet attachment for the pack ‘n play yet but we will a lot this summer since we plan to do some traveling. The reason why it made my essential list though is because the attachments that it comes with have been so great. If I need to put Shane down for just a few minutes (i.e. to use the bathroom, get a drink, make a bottle) the napper attachment has been a great help for that. The changing pad has been an even bigger lifesaver. We change 95% of Shane’s diapers on here. It’s also great because you can just wipe it clean when diaper changes go south. 🤣

    SEVEN: Fisher-Price Soothing Motion Bassinet– This bassinet has been AWESOME. Shane has slept in it every night since he’s been born. We love it especially because it has a vibrate function that we turn on after we have laid him down asleep. It definitely helps him to stay asleep and not wake back up as soon as we lay him down. It’s nice too because the vibrate turns off after 30 mins so the batteries don’t run out too quickly. It also has a night-light that you can turn on in the middle of the night if you need to check on baby. It also has nature sounds, music, and a projector. We don’t use those features but they are still really nice to have.

    EIGHT: Extra gift cards/money- This is another suggestion that I have not seen on a newborn essentials post or video but was absolutely essential for us. Since babies all have their own preferences for things, sometimes we get things wrong when preparing for baby. I would highly, highly suggest having either savings you are okay with using or extra gift cards because we had so many instances where we needed things we didn’t realize we needed before having our baby. Having a savings that we weren’t afraid to touch was HUGE for us.


    I hope this was helpful! Just remember though that every baby and mama is different so what worked for us might not work at all for you. That’s the beauty of being a mama – learning what is best for our little ones. It can be stressful at times but is super rewarding when we finally get it right! 😉 What is on your newborn essentials list? I’d love to know!

  • Baby

    Shane Thomas: Three Months

     

    Size: Shane weights 11 lbs 13 ozs and is in size 0-3 month clothes. He also still wears size 1 diapers. I feel like every once in a while I look at him and it feels like he’s grown so much overnight.

    Blurry, but so cute I had to include it

     

    Sleep: He really likes to keep us on our toes with sleep. Every time we think we have it down, he decides he doesn’t want to sleep well for the next week. For the most part though, he’s a pretty good sleeper at night – it’s during naps that he doesn’t really seem to want to stay asleep.

    His favorite place to sleep is definitely our chests 🙂

     

    Loves: Shane loves playing on his play mat, when his daddy comes home from work, his grandma, and being sung to.

     

    Hates: Shane is a pretty easy-going baby. There are only a few things that make him upset – being hot and the sun in his eyes.

     

    Milestones: Just a few days before Shane turned three months old he started giggling! It’s still kind of hard to make him laugh but it is magical when he does. 🙂

    He also started sitting up in his Bumbo and joined us for dinner, which was super fun!

    We also had his first Easter this month, which was so much fun!

    Easter 🙂

    And just for fun, here is a side by side of Shane the past three months! It’s funny because he almost looks thinner in his three-month picture – but he’s two pounds heavier. 🤔


    Each month just keeps getting more and more fun and we are just loving watching him grow!

  • Baby,  Life

    Shane Thomas: Two Months

    Hi friends. I’m here to finally recap Shane’s second month! We honestly fall more and more in love with him every day and can’t believe that God gave him to us. He’s such a blessing and is growing so fast!

    Size: At his two month appointment the doctor weighted him in at 10 lbs 1 oz, which was a bit weird because my scale at home said he was around 10 lbs 10 oz but that’s okay. He was also 22.125 inches long!

    We moved up to size 1 diapers this month and 0-3 month size clothes!

    Sleep: Sleep has gotten a little more consistent this month. He still sleeps about 4-5 hour stretches at a time. He only wakes up about once a night so I’m very thankful for that! Sometimes it’s a bit hard to get him down and occasionally he fights going back down in the middle of the night too but overall he’s a good sleeper!

    Naps also got better this month. We are starting to get into a little bit more of a routine and he definitely seems a lot more sleepy this month. His first few weeks I swear he never slept. He never even seemed tired – it was the most bizarre thing. But he now starts to act tired after being up for about 1 1/2 – 2 hours.

    Loves: Eating, his mama and dada, and meeting new people. He almost always gives the biggest smile to any new face he sees. It’s so cute.

    Hates: He honestly doesn’t hate much. He’s a very laid back baby. He does get cranky when he’s tired and he has to wait a couple of minutes to eat.

    Our first walk 🙂

    Milestones: Shane started smiling this month and it’s our new favorite thing. He is still super strong and is doing amazing at tummy time. He just growing so much and becoming even more alert with each passing day. We went on our first family walk this month too and that was so fun. Also, Shane took his first nap in his crib. I didn’t think I would be okay having him sleep in his room until he was much older but he sleeps so much better in his crib. I just use the monitor and check on him often. 🙂

    Personality: Shane has become a lot more laid back this month, like I mentioned earlier. He barely ever cries. He only started yelling if he’s hungry and wants to eat, and that’s about it haha.

  • Baby,  Coffee Dates,  Faith

    Let’s Have Coffee | Vol. 13

    I thought it was time for another coffee date since the last one we’ve had was in September – long before I had Shane! Let’s jump right in and catch up, shall we?


    If we were having coffee, I’d tell you that I know I keep mentioning how I want to share more about my breastfeeding journey and about Shane’s nursery and I promise that eventually that will happen. I’m just not sure when.

    If we were having coffee, I’d explain that I’m not sure when because these past two months have been the hardest of my life. For the longest time I couldn’t even admit that because I felt so guilty and like I should be saying that they have been the best of my life. And while I love my son with my whole heart, it doesn’t make the past two months any easier.

    If we were having coffee, I’d share that the past two months have been so hard because of breastfeeding. Like I’ve mentioned just a bit before, it has not gone well. Before I had Shane I thought that if I just tried my hardest and did what I had to do, I would be successful at breastfeeding. And while I have been fighting tooth and nail these past two months – they have NOT gone at all how I have wanted. I will talk more about this when I write about my breastfeeding journey.

    If we were having coffee, I’d also ask for you to pray for me because I know that the only one who can help with this hard time is God. I need peace and to be able to accept things as they are. I am even debating on going on medication to try to help with breastfeeding but don’t know if that’s the right choice, which is why I desperately need your prayers.

    If we were having coffee, I’d ask how you were doing. I’d apologize for not being a better friend lately and ask for you to forgive me. Life has been all-consuming lately and I’d tell you that I hope that changes soon so we could spend more time together.

    If we were having coffee, I’d mention that I don’t even recognize my own life. It’s crazy how much having a baby changes things. I’d also share that I never imagined how much I could love another person until I met my baby. And even though the last few months have been hard, I’m absolutely loving being a mom and can’t wait for all of the fun times ahead with our precious baby boy.


    Thanks for stopping by and spending your time with me! I hope to be able to spend more time here soon – but no promises! Taking care of a baby is A LOT of work (especially one who doesn’t like to sleep during the day. 😉)