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    What’s Up Wednesday: March 2017 Edition

    Happy Wednesday friends! Today I’m linking up with Shay, Shaeffer, and Mel for What’s Up Wednesday. Come join us!

     

    What We’re Eating This Week

    We splurged and went to Shake Shack after church this Sunday and it was so. good.

    We’ve been eating lots of fun things this week, including these homemade Starbucks chocolatey chip frapps! Also so delish!

    I also made homemade fried rice this week! We just picked up a quart of chicken and broccoli to eat with it and it was such a great meal.

     

    What I’m Reminiscing About

    Our wedding! The weather’s just starting to break and remind me of Spring around here, which brings me back to the time we were planning vigorously and then to the actual wedding day. In just a month and a half we’ll have been married for one whole year. I really can’t believe it.

     

    What I’m Loving

    I may have just mentioned it already. 😉 That the weather is starting to break. It’s still only in the 50-60’s here in New Jersey but I’m hoping that the temperatures start hitting the 70’s really soon and we can once again go outside and enjoy the sun!

     

    What We’ve Been Up To

    Nothing too much to be honest. I’ve been working hard at getting my Etsy shop up and running. I went to JoAnn’s this month and bought all of this yarn and am so excited to reveal what I’m working on soon! (If you’re interested, follow along on Instagram, where I’ve been giving updates! 🙂 (@ashleyzincrochets).

    We’ve also seen a lot of our family this month, which was nice. We had my mom, brother, and his girlfriend over for dinner one night, and my cousin came over another night. We also went and visited Tommy’s family too.

     

    What I’m Dreading

    Nothing! (Which I am soo thankful for!) 🙂

     

    What I’m Working On

    Well, I kind of already answered this one in the what I’ve been up to section. But I am also working on trying to put together an online bible study. If that sounds like something you’d be interested in, check out this post! We only have a few people so far so I’m really hoping more people will sign up!

     

    What I’m Excited About

    A week from Friday, my family and I are driving down to Florida to spend the week with my grandparents! We are also going to be hitting up the beach a few days, and I am so beyond excited to go. Warmer weather. Grandparents. Florida. The Beach. Yes.

     

    What I’m Watching/Reading

    I have been so, so bad about reading this year. I honestly haven’t read much. I really want to start again though.

    Tommy and I blew through Season 3 of How To Get Away With Murder in about 3 days. OMG you guys, that show. It is so well written. If you haven’t watched it, I would highly recommend it. But be warned, there is a lot of killing and it does really freak me out at the same time, so if you aren’t into shows like that, then nevermind. 😉

    Also, if you have any Netflix suggestions, please send them my way! Tommy and I really don’t know what to watch anymore.

     

    What I’m Listening To

    I actually have an answer to this one! I’ve never yet had a real answer because I never really “listened” to anything consistently. But! I started listening to Jeff and Alyssa Bethke’s podcast even though they don’t update it anymore, and I am loving it. It’s super encouraging. And I actually heard on Jeff’s Instagram story yesterday that they are starting it up again! What a great time to have started listening.

     

    What I’m Wearing

    Lots and lots of sweats. 😉 I actually have a Target gift card that I really need to go use and buy new clothes, haha. I’ve mentioned this before but ever since quitting my corporate job, I don’t have much nicer type lounge clothes (is that even a thing?). And I am not about to wear my corporate clothes around the house!

     

    What I’m Doing This Weekend

    I’m going to a bridal shower for my cousin’s fiance on Saturday! I’m actually really excited about it. My aunt asked if I could come up on Friday and help set up too. Should be a ton of fun.

     

    What I’m Looking Forward To Next Month

    Well since technically that’s when we’re going on the Florida trip, that’d be the same answer for this one too. Also, the weather warming up even more should be great.

     

    What Else Is New

    Tommy has actually been actively looking for jobs in Florida and we’ve been talking very seriously about moving there, which is so exciting! I would just love being in warmer weather all year round!

     

    Bonus question for the month…

    What Is Your Favorite Spring Thing To Wear

    via target.com

    I’d have to say floral maxi dresses. I absolutely love this one. I might have to buy it when I head to Target!

    \\What’s Up With Your Wednesday?

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    Friday Favorites | Vol. 3

    Happy St. Patty’s Day! Do you usually celebrate today? I don’t think I ever have before. Today I decided to pick back up and share a Friday Favorites post. I was planning on writing one last week but didn’t have such a great week and decided to do a Friday Introductions post instead and share a little bit about myself. Check that out here if you missed it! 🙂 (oh P.S. I, for some strange reason, decided to wake up at 4:30 am when my husband got up, after going to bed at 1 am, and am attempting to function like a normal human being, so please forgive me for any errors that may result because of this. 😉 )

    Friday Favorites!

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    image shared on Instagram via (@ashleyzincrochets)

    I started working on a baby girl blanket for my Etsy shop and am loving how it’s turning out! I wish crocheting wasn’t so time-consuming sometimes so that I can open my shop up sooner! For those of you who don’t know, I’m planning on opening an Etsy shop sometime within the next couple of months. I plan to sell blankets, home decor, and baby items. I’m very excited, but I never would have imagined how much work it is!

    t w o

    follow me on facebook here 🙂

    I revamped my site, along with my Facebook page, and am absolutely loving how it came out! I feel like this layout is much more pulled together and clean, and I feel like it better represents my blog and who I am. What’d you think? Also, I’d love to hear your suggestions for essential plugins. I’m always looking to learn more and I’m finding that the best way to do that is with friends. 🙂

    t h r e e

    This post located here, if you’re interested. 🙂

    Ever since I wrote and shared Facing My Biggest Fear, I have had such a different outlook on life. That sounds so cliché I know, but after I was able to stop worrying about my health, I just felt so much more alive. “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.” John 10:10. The closer I walk with God the more this becomes real to me. Every time I lay a struggle down at Jesus’s feet and allow him to heal me of it, I am amazed at how differently I view my life. It’s never easy but it’s always worth it.

    f o u r

    I put out all of our Spring decor this week (even though there’s so. much. snow. outside), and I’m just loving the refresh it gave our little apartment. I’m loving even more that 90% of it is from our wedding decor and it reminds me of when we just got married. We’re planning on moving out when our lease is up next month and I am just not ready to say goodbye to our first apartment together. 🙁

    f i v e

    I’m only very new to learning about essential oils and all of the health benefits to them but I, of course had to add them to my Friday Favorites. This blend in particular is my absolute fav. I unfortunately am waiting on more lemon and lavender (because they are both so low), and have not been able to diffuse this in a while, but I’m really missing it. Do you use essential oils? What are your favorites? I’d really love to know!

     

    Today I’m linking up with these wonderful ladies! Come join us! 🙂

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    Friday Favorites | Vol. 2

    I know it’s kind of excessive to do a What’s Up Wednesday post and a Friday Favorites in the same week but that’s just how it worked out this week and I am not complaining because it makes it a very easy writing week for me, haha! But I promised in my last (and first) Friday Favorites two weeks ago that I was going to do a Friday Favorites post every other week so I need to keep my promise to do that 😉 Don’t worry I’ll try my best to keep things interesting! 🙂

    Our first married Valentine’s Day was really nice! Tommy bought me these beautiful flowers and we spent the night just relaxing together. We wanted to order a heart-shaped pizza but I wasn’t sure how to find a place that sold them haha and I didn’t want to call around and ask. Soo we just ordered a regular-shaped margarita pizza and salad and it was the bomb.com!

    I don’t have a picture of this because I honestly never really take pictures in regular life. I really need to start! But Tommy and I hung out with my cousin and her boyfriend on Sunday. We went hiking, then came back to our apartment and just hung out for the rest of the night and it was so fun! Can’t wait to continue doing this with them as the weather keeps warming up.

    I mentioned this in my What’s Up Wednesday post too but didn’t have the pictures to include so I think that means it’s okay to talk about it in this post as well. 😉 When Tommy and I went up to Lake George this past weekend we went to our favorite cafe for breakfast and got lattes and I got a breakfast sandwich and Tommy got french toast. I wish the place was closer because it’s just so yummy.

    A little off topic but talking about how much fun going out on dates with Tommy reminds me that we’re joining this marriage class that our new church is doing for couples who are in their first 5 years of marriage. I’m really excited about it, but also a little nervous. It’s once a month for the next 6 months or so I believe, and I will definitely be blogging about that in the future. 😉

    The past month or so Tommy and I have been eating such yummy food. I’m actually planning on doing a Recipe Roundup post early next week and sharing all of the recipes that we are really enjoying. This dinner was extra special because I wasn’t feeling very well a few days ago and Tommy made this for us so that I could relax. The. Best.

    I’ve been having a rough week or so and I opened my Bible app the other day and found this verse as the verse of the day and I was so encouraged. I feel so lost sometimes because of not having a “normal” job, and I kept praying and asking God for some encouragement and I felt like this was him answering my prayer.

    I also realized (yet again) that I need to make some changes to my daily routine because my anxiety seems to be coming back some and I think it’s because I’m not leaving the house most days. I am going to commit to getting dressed and trying to leave the house at least 3 times per week because it helps so much. I have been putting off running errands lately and I’m not really sure why but it’s making my anxiety much worse.

    I’m linking up with these wonderful ladies today! Come join us! 🙂

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    What’s Up Wednesday: February 2017 Edition

    Hi friends, I’m back again this month for What’s Up Wednesday! I really cannot believe it’s already the end of February. It went soo fast. Let’s recap the month! 🙂

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    WUW Questions

    What We’re Eating This Week

    Lots and lots of soup. It’s kind of weird timing because the weather is finally getting warmer but it’s still not too warm for some yummy soup! I had the meat ingredients in my freezer for Italian Sausage, Spinach, and Tomato Soup, so when I went food shopping yesterday I picked up the rest of the ingredients because the last time I made it, it was delish. I also have plans to make Beef Bourguignon, the recipe that’s in For the Love because Jen Hatmaker made it sound so, so good.

    What I’m Reminiscing About

    That time when Tommy and I attempted Paleo eating for a couple of weeks back when we were dating. I’m honestly not really sure why I have been thinking about it but I really want to do it again. Maybe sometime in the near future?

    What I’m Loving

    That the weather is starting to warm up! It’s usually very cold in New Jersey in February but this week it has even hit the 60’s! Tommy and I and my cousin and her boyfriend even went hiking this past Sunday and it was awesome to just get out of the house. I’m really hoping it stays this warm!

    What We’ve Been Up To

    what’s a road trip without Starbucks?

    This past weekend Tommy and I went up to Lake George with his parents and it was really fun despite it being much colder up there. We went out for Hibachi, which was great and Tommy and I had a nice date at our favorite coffee shop. (The pictures I took are on his phone though, which I’m kicking myself now because I really want to add them to this post!)

    What I’m Dreading

    Honestly nothing 🙂

    What I’m Working On

    Oh boy. This question. I have been working so hard the past month or so that I kind of ran myself into the ground. I have been spending so much of my time researching as much as I can about blogging. I’m learning so much too!

    I also am working on setting up an Etsy shop but don’t think I’m ready to divulge the details yet! I will as soon as I think it’s a good time to though, and I’m super excited about it!! I’ve been spending even more of my time working on making the products for the shop.

    What I’m Excited About

    Tommy and I have been married for 9 months today!! I can’t believe it’s almost been a year!

    What I’m Watching/Reading

    Well like I mentioned before, I’m reading For the Love by Jen Hatmaker. My favorite place and honestly only place I’ve been reading this is in a nice warm bath, which is why I have barely read at all this month. #oops.

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    We just finished watching Parenthood last night and I’m so sad it’s over. It was so great. I need all the Netflix suggestions because I’m lost on what to watch next!

    What I’m Listening To

    I’ve just been starting to get into Podcasts. I listen to one by one of my favorite bloggers, Blair called Simplify Everything. I need some suggestions for that too though!!

    What I’m Wearing

    Oh gosh this is embarrassing but 9 times out of 10 I’m in sweats now that I’m working from home. But honestly it’s because I only really have corporate attire and I am not about to wear clothes like that at home. I really need to go shopping for more casual clothes that are comfy but not sweats.

    What I’m Doing This Weekend

    It looks like it’s going to rain this weekend despite it being in the 60’s! (insert crying face). Oh but Tommy and I have a nice date planned for Saturday morning! He wants to take me to this really yummy bakery so that should be exciting. Then on Sunday morning we will be back at church after 3 weeks off! I don’t remember the last time I’ve missed that many weeks in a row of church, but I am very excited to be going on Sunday.

    What I’m Looking Forward To Next Month

    The weather getting consistently warmer and also to continue blogging and working on my Etsy shop!

    What Else Is New

    Just that I’ve been talking more openly about my choice to be a full time blogger with my family and they have taken it way better than I thought they would. I even shared my blog on my regular Facebook page, which I was really nervous about doing.

    I also started using essential oils this month and I just love them already! Do you use essential oils? Or are you tired of hearing about them yet?

    Bonus Question: What Is Your Go To Beauty Product

    I honestly don’t use makeup very much normally and now that I’m home most of the time I really don’t use it. But I really want to start putting it on every day again and learning how to really do my makeup, not just mascara and coverup. If you have any tips for me they would be very much welcomed because I honestly do not know where to start!

    Bonus: Visit last years What’s Up Wednesday for February to see how much my life has changed since then!

    I am linking up with Shay, Shaeffer, and Mel

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    Friday Favorites | Vol. 1

    I wanted to start a new little series here called Friday Favorites, which is a link up that I follow that I want to start to join in on. (I will include more information about it at the end of the post in case you want to join us as well!) The general idea is just to share your favorite things or moments over the past week. I’m only going to do this every other week so I will share my favorite moments over the last two weeks. I want to do this so that my blog is a little more personal too because that’s my favorite thing about reading other blogs. I love getting to know the writer so this is my way of letting you in on my day-to-day. 🙂 Hope you enjoy.

    On the right would be an example of just how excited I am about getting these oils & on the left is the kit I received minus the diffuser.

    I just received my essential oils that I ordered at the beginning of the month and I’m already in love. I already have tried the Stress Away blend and it really works!! I feel so calm and at ease. I can’t wait to keep experimenting and sharing about my essential oil journey. Has anyone else tried essential oils? I’d love to hear about your experience too! Leave a comment or email me. 🙂

     

    We had a snow day yesterday and I got to spend the whole day with Tommy and it felt like a weekend. We had a nice time just relaxing together, catching up on sleep, and getting our Netflix binges in. I just love days where you have an excuse to skip out on responsibilities and do nothing. I’m really soaking up this time because I know that once we have kids everything will be much, much different.

     

    My favorite part about being a stay-at-home wife is that I have so much more time and energy to really meal plan and cook fun dinners. I’ve been trying my best to keep the dinners pretty healthy but sometimes we like to splurge too and this dinner above was so, so yummy. I made homemade potato wedge fries with cheese, and cheeseburgers with sautéed onions.

     

    This is such a boring one but I feel too good about it not to share, haha! I cleaned out our pantry last week (which was on my February goals!) and just looking at it makes me so happy. I really should have taken a before picture because it’s hard to appreciate the organization that it is without knowing what it looked like before, but just take my word for it, it was a MESS. I love being able to just open the pantry and see everything without having to move things around.

     

    Tommy and I bought a pour over coffee maker probably about six months ago and I just tried a new kind of coffee in it and it was to die for. (We have this coffee maker and I used GEVALIA Colombian Coffee.) It was really strong but without being bitter at all. So good.
     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    Today I am linking up with wonderful ladies! Come join us! 🙂

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    What’s Up Wednesday: January 2017 Edition

    Hi friends! I know that this is very similar to my currently post yesterday, but I’ve been wanting to get back into posting regularly for What’s Up Wednesday so I’m going to start this month (and try not to duplicate too much information from yesterday), and continue on with this series every last Wednesday of each month.

    WUW Questions

    What we’re eating this week:

    This past week has been a lot of bad eating habits, but in our defense it was our birthdays this weekend! We also have been eating very heavy meals, I guess because it’s been cold out and we have been just wanting some comfort food. Either way, I’m hoping to jump back on the healthy eating train and really work on cleaning up our diet a little bit more over this next week or two.

    What I’m reminiscing about:

    Always, always reminiscing about our tropical vacations when we’re in the cold, dreary months of winter. What I wouldn’t do to hop on a plane and be back in the Bahamas or the Dominican right now!

    What I’m loving:

    All the freeeeedom I have now that I’m not working full-time. It’s been so fun to be able to plan whatever I’d like into my day without worrying about being too tired or busy to really get done what I need to get done around the house. I’m also really loving having more time to spend cooking and cannot wait to really dive into it and cook more nutritious meals.

    What we’ve been up to:

    Celebrating a lot this month! We celebrated our birthdays this past weekend (like I mentioned yesterday) and our 8 month anniversary on my birthday. I plan to write a post just about what we did to celebrate this week so keep a heads up for that if you’re interested!

    What I’m dreading:

    I’m not really dreading anything at the moment, which is a great thing!

    What I’m working on:

    Learning how to post consistently here! It’s been tough keeping a Monday-Friday schedule but it’s stretching me and teaching me more about discipline too. I’m hoping to continue to push myself slightly out of my comfort zone and write about things that I think will be helpful to others, like marriage advice that I’ve learned.

    What I’m excited about:

    Just the season of life that we are in. It comes with a lot of freedom and flexibility and I’m really learning how to just enjoy the season instead of wishing things were different. There are of course some hard things, as there is with any thing, but I’m really trying to just enjoy and focus on this season because all too soon it will be over before I know it.

    I mentioned this yesterday too but I’m really excited about doing more research to open up an Etsy shop. The first thing I want to work on is this awesome mug. What’d you guys think?

    What I’m watching/reading:

    As I mentioned yesterday I’m reading Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone and For The Love and I’m really enjoying both of them. I just need to devote more time to actually reading instead of working on the computer.

    We’ve also been watching Parenthood and it’s such a great show. Easily one of my all time favorites, and were only on Season 2!

    What I’m listening to:

    Honestly not much since I don’t even really drive all that much and that was when I would normally listen to music. Sometimes I’ll put on music when I’m cleaning or doing the dishes but for the most part it doesn’t really cross my mind.

    I have been wanting to get into Podcasts though so let me know of some suggestions!

    What I’m wearing:

    Lots and lots of comfy clothes since I’m home most of the time now. I actually really need to go shopping for something nicer than sweatpants, but not quite as nice as I needed to dress in the corporate world so I have things to wear without staying in my pajamas all day.

    What I’m doing this weekend:

    Honestly not the slightest clue. Maybe we’ll plan to have some friends over since it’s been a while since we’ve done that!

    What I’m looking forward to next month:

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    Our first married Valentines Day! We don’t usually go big for Valentines Day or anything but since it’s our first one married I’m sure we’ll do something. Maybe we’ll order a heart-shaped pizza! I’ve seen some people do that and it seems like so much fun!

    What else is new:

    Transitioning over to being a stay at home wife this month was huge. There have been some ups and downs but I’m still very much excited about the newness of it. Tommy and I have had so much more free time together and it’s been great. We’ve actually have had two unexpected days of him being off due to a holiday or the weather and we’ve gotten to spend all day during the week together so it’s been super fun!

    What’s up with you guys? I’m linking up with Shay, Shaeffer, and Mel for What’s Up Wednesday!