• Wedding

    Zinhobls Say I Do: Family Pictures

    Hi friends! 🙂 Today is another installment of my wedding pictures. If you are interested in seeing the others, or you missed a week, you can check those out below those below:

    This week I wanted to share our family pictures. I think these came out so nice and I’m excited to share with you guys. 🙂

    My Family

    My Mom, Tommy, Me, My Grandma, My Grandpa, and My Brother Dylan

    My Grandparents!

     

    My Mom
    My Brother (Whose eyes are closed in 80% of all the pictures, haha!)
    My Dad

    Tommy’s Family

    Tommy’s Parents
    My Brother-In-Law Michael, Tommy’s Dad, Tommy’s Mom, Me, Tommy, My Sister-In-Law Diana, and My Brother-In-Law Nick

    That’s all of ’em! Now we only have the Reception Pictures and Decor Pictures, and to end off the series, our Honeymoon Recap! It’s so fun to go back and relive this day through these pictures. Hope you are enjoying following along as well. 🙂

  • Life

    Monthly Goals: March

    February turned out to be a month that was different from what I had originally planned. I don’t think I really did many of my goals at all, but I am kind of okay with it because I learned a lot about myself this month. I learned how to more efficiently work from home, and feel good about doing it, which I struggled a lot with through-out the whole month. The reason why I really didn’t focus on my goals though was because I spent a large majority of my time working on starting an Etsy shop. I think I’m still a few months away from actually doing this, but I learned so much about it and also about blogging this month too. So enough of my excuses, let’s see just how bad I did with these goals. 😉

    February Goals Recap

    • Celebrate our first married Valentines Day! I included what we did in this post if you’re interested.
    • Read two books. Nope. Not even one. 🙁
    • Clean out the pantry. This I did right in the beginning of the month and it has made my cooking experience so much better, haha!
    • Clean out our drawers. I’m loving how the organizing projects just keep getting checked off the list. This makes me feel so much better.
    • Finish crocheting the blanket I’m working on. YES. (PS. This may or may not have to do with my Etsy shop) 😉
    • Consistently blog Monday-Friday. Still going strong! 🙂
    • Pray for Tommy every day. I really want to cheat and check this off but it just did not happen. I prayed for him more than I did before, but just not every day so I will keep trying until that happens.
    • Create a cleaning schedule. I also did not do this one, I’m still debating what’s the best way to do it to be honest.
    • Create a blogging schedule for the month.
    • Workout 2-3x’s per month. LOL. I can never get this one down. We did start doing yoga this month though and I really love it, so I’m feeling hopeful for next month maybe!
    • Get used to waking up at 7 am. Nope. It’s more like 8-9 but I’ve been okay with it. I think I’ll keep trying until I get it to 7 though.

    I didn’t do quite as bad as I thought I did! I just can never get down the reading or working out goals that I want to. I guess I will keep trying though!

    March Goals

    • Consistently blog Monday-Friday
    • Read 2 books
    • Plan Florida vacation
    • Finish crocheting another blanket
    • Write 4 Lifetree posts
    • Write post for Young Wives Club
    • Workout 2-3x’s per week
    • Spend more time outside
    • Pray for Tommy every day

    I guess we’ll see how this month goes! I’m excited that the weather’s getting warmer and hopefully that will create a lot more inspiration for my goals, especially the working out one.

    What are your goals this month? I’m linking up with Autumn for #MonthlyGold. Come join us! 🙂

  • Life

    Tips For Working From Home

    It’s been about two months now since I wrote about how I was unemployed, and about a month since I announced that I was going to be blogging full-time. I am obviously still very new to this but I have learned a few things since then that I’d like to share. I may even write a part two to this post eventually if in a year or so I have more to add to this topic. But for now I have a few tips that make a huge difference on my mood and productivity of my day if I follow them so I know they will be helpful for anyone else working from home as well.

    1 | Get Dressed Every Morning

    This is kind of embarrassing to admit but I only just (like this week) figured this one out. Most days I was just staying in my pajamas all day, well because I really didn’t have a reason to change and I seriously love my pajamas, haha! It’s also because I only have mostly uncomfortable, corporate world clothes in my closet and I definitely am not going to wear those around the house. But I realized last week that not changing or “getting ready” for my day was absolutely killing my attitude most days. I felt lazy (even though I wasn’t actually being lazy), but felt that way just because I was still in pajamas. I realize this one tip really isn’t rocket science, you’re probably thinking well duh, but for me I had to learn this one the hard way.

    So I have committed to changing every morning before I start working. This is also a key to most of my tips. If I don’t do most of these things before I start working, I won’t do them at all because once I get plugged into what I’m doing, I have a really hard time pulling myself away for something as small as getting dressed. So that’s my tip for you: Get dressed before you start your day.

    2 | Eat Breakfast Early

    Yes, this is also another common sense one but it is incredible how fast the time gets away from you once you’re on a roll working on something. My tip is to also eat breakfast before you start working. It honestly changes so much about my day when I do this. On the days that I start working with the thought of taking a break and eating breakfast, this break doesn’t happen until close to 11 am and at that point I am starving and really am not feeling very well.

    Even if you’re like me and you really hate eating anything before you had your coffee, either just eat something small just to get it out-of-the-way, to make sure that you are going to be correctly fueled for the day, or have your coffee and do something small and then eat a proper meal before really diving into your work. Even if your meal is Cheerios or a yogurt. Honestly this is what I eat every morning because I really don’t like breakfast much, and it makes the world of a difference.

    OH and it is also equally important to make sure that you are drinking water throughout your day. When I was working in an office building I always, always drank so much water and tea because it was just an excuse to get up from my desk and move around but I don’t have that pressure at home or care as much so I sometimes forget to drink water throughout my day. But forgetting this will kill your mood and your productivity and sometimes you won’t even realize why! My suggestion is to keep a water cup on your desk and refill it every time it gets close to empty. It sounds silly but it is so important and so easy to forget.

    3 | Stick To A Routine

    Try your best to stick to at least a general routine. For example, try to wake up and go to sleep around the same time every day. I personally still need to create more of a routine for my day because sometimes it’s hard to get out of bed when you don’t have to. If you have a spouse or live with someone, it may be helpful to wake up when they do so that it gets you out of bed at the same time every day. For me this doesn’t work because my husband wakes up at 4 am every day and that is just not going to happen for me, even if I wanted it to haha. But I think it really helps with feeling like what you’re doing is important if you stick to a consistent schedule.

    Not only with your sleep schedule, but I also think it’s important to stick to some sort of work schedule as well. I am in the process of making myself one, where I am going to create times of the day where I write, do home chores, and take breaks. This is important for me because I am a creature of habit, and without having a schedule I feel a bit lost. If I know what is expected of me (even if I am the only one expecting these things of me), then I am more likely to get things done. I guess to put it simply, I feel more accomplished if I have a task list and check things off the list as the day goes on. It just takes the guess-work out if I have pre-made plans on what to do for the week ahead of time.

    4 | Take Breaks + Move

    In a job where you work outside of the house there are usually break times automatically scheduled into your day, but at home it’s much easier to skip over these very important break times. Some people may find it hard to stick to their work when they work from home, but I find the exact opposite. I actually have been over working myself ever since working from home. I feel lazy taking a break or think that I can do more because I’m enjoying what I’m doing, but it 100% of the time causes burnout if I don’t take breaks.

    It could be something as short and quick as playing with your dog for 15 mins, or going for a walk around the block. Or maybe taking a little break to read a book. It may be hard to pull yourself away from a task, so maybe take small breaks in between tasks. Or it may also be helpful to schedule these breaks into your day, just as they would happen if you worked outside the home. Try both and see which works best for you, but make sure you get up and move throughout the day. You’ll feel so much better I promise!

    5 | Get Out Of The House

    The amount of times you do this may change depending on your personality, but it is so important to get out of the house during the week. I’m learning that I go a bit stir crazy and can’t focus on work if I stay inside for too many days in a row. If you’re an extrovert, you may need to get out of the house at least once a day. But if you’re an introvert like me, once or twice a week may be sufficient. Play around and see what works best for you. Going for a walk outside might be enough, while other people may need more human interaction.

    Some ways to do this is to maybe go to a coffee shop and work from there if that’s possible. Running errands is a great way for me to get out of the house that really seems to break up the week. It’s also helpful for me that my husband comes home for the day around lunch time, so I really am not alone for most of the day. But I could see how if he worked until 5 or 6 at night, I would probably need to get out and talk to people a lot more often.

    6 | Keep Your Home Tidy

    Keeping my home clean makes all the difference in the world for my mood throughout the day. I feel stressed and like I have so much more to do if I had left the dinner dishes from the night before in the sink. I think it’s also important to keep a tidy home because if you think about it, a work environment outside of the home is usually very clean, so it only makes sense that you will feel more comfortable in a neat, clean environment. There’s a quote that says, “Outer clutter creates mental clutter”, and I believe that is so, so true. If we keep our spaces clean, especially the spaces where we are working, it will create a much more peaceful and creative environment to work in.

    All of these tips don’t sound like much but they are important things that are quickly forgotten about when you don’t immediately have to do them. But they are things that make all the difference in the world when it comes to your mood and your productivity for the day. Do you work from home? Are these things that you struggle with? What other tips do you have that are helpful? I’d love to hear from you!

  • Life,  Recipes

    Recipe Roundup: Quick + Easy Dinners | February 2017

    It is currently 70+ degrees right now in New Jersey in FEBRUARY so you better believe I’m writing this post outside on my patio. I also just went for a nice walk around our apartment buildings because I feel like I haven’t been able to really get out and move in months. But anyway, that really doesn’t have anything to do with what I’m writing about, I just had to let you guys know. 🙂

    What I actually wanted to write about, that I mentioned in my last post, Friday Favorites, was a recipe roundup of all the yummy dinners that we’ve been eating over the past few months. I’m always looking for new dinner recipes so I figured there more than likely is others too so hopefully this will be helpful. (PS. Black is not a good color to wear when sitting out in the sun!!) Also, there aren’t quite as many recipes included as I originally wanted, but I plan to better document our dinners going forward and plan to have more in my next post. I get a lot of these recipes off of Pinterest and have a few Recipe boards, so if you like these and are interested you can follow me on Pinterest here. 🙂

    O N E

    Creamy Tomato Tortellini Soup

    This soup was perfect. It was delicious and super easy to make. It also only took about 30-45 mins. It has cheese tortellini and sun-dried tomatoes in it. I also made some garlic bread, which was absolutely perfect to dip into the soup. Definitely one of my favorites soups I’ve found.

    Source: https://www.keyingredient.com/recipes/171098794/creamy-tomato-tortellini-soup/

    T W O

    Teriyaki Chicken

    This was another super easy recipe to make that took no time at all. Usually when recipes that say 30 mins to make, it usually takes me anywhere from 45-60 mins (maybe I’m a slow cooker, I don’t know haha) but this one truly only takes 30 mins to make. My husband actually made it both times and it comes out so, so yummy.

    Source: http://www.crunchycreamysweet.com/quick-teriyaki-chicken-rice-bowls-recipe-card/

    T H R E E

    Creamy Tuscan Garlic Chicken

    We used whole grain linguini to make this recipe just a little bit healthier. I also sent this recipe to my cousin about a month ago and her and her family loved it as well. This recipe also uses sun-dried tomatoes so it’s helpful to make this one within the same week or two as the soup so that you can get your money’s worth for those expensive tomatoes! (That’s what I did at least 😉 ). Oh and I also doubled the sauce because I just really like extra sauce on everything.

    Source: http://yummlydishes.com/creamy-tuscan-garlic-chicken/

    F O U R

    Cheeseburgers with Sautéed Onions + Cheesy Steak Fries + Asparagus

      1. To cook the burger, I used a skillet to cook them and added onion powder, garlic powder, and Emeril’s Bam! Burger Seasoning (affiliate link) on both sides.
      2. To cook the onions, I sliced them and sautéed in olive oil + salt and pepper. Then when they’re almost done I add about 1-2 tbsp of Marsala Cooking Wine (also an affiliate link).
      3. To cook the fries, I sliced them into wedges then lined a cooking sheet with foil and placed them on the sheet. Then I drizzled olive oil over them, and added salt, pepper, onion powder, and garlic powder to both sides of the potatoes. I cooked them for about 30 mins. About 1-2 mins before they were done (or when they are just turning brown), I added some mozzarella and cheddar cheese on top. They were a bit of a splurge but so worth it!
      4. To cook the asparagus, I followed this recipe.

    These were all recipes that we liked so much that we have made more than once. I hope they give you some ideas and are helpful for those nights where you just need something super quick but also super yummy! 😉 All of these recipes make quite a bit of food or are easily able to be doubled so are good for leftover days too! Let me know if you try any and what you think!

  • Faith,  Life

    Friday Favorites | Vol. 2

    I know it’s kind of excessive to do a What’s Up Wednesday post and a Friday Favorites in the same week but that’s just how it worked out this week and I am not complaining because it makes it a very easy writing week for me, haha! But I promised in my last (and first) Friday Favorites two weeks ago that I was going to do a Friday Favorites post every other week so I need to keep my promise to do that 😉 Don’t worry I’ll try my best to keep things interesting! 🙂

    Our first married Valentine’s Day was really nice! Tommy bought me these beautiful flowers and we spent the night just relaxing together. We wanted to order a heart-shaped pizza but I wasn’t sure how to find a place that sold them haha and I didn’t want to call around and ask. Soo we just ordered a regular-shaped margarita pizza and salad and it was the bomb.com!

    I don’t have a picture of this because I honestly never really take pictures in regular life. I really need to start! But Tommy and I hung out with my cousin and her boyfriend on Sunday. We went hiking, then came back to our apartment and just hung out for the rest of the night and it was so fun! Can’t wait to continue doing this with them as the weather keeps warming up.

    I mentioned this in my What’s Up Wednesday post too but didn’t have the pictures to include so I think that means it’s okay to talk about it in this post as well. 😉 When Tommy and I went up to Lake George this past weekend we went to our favorite cafe for breakfast and got lattes and I got a breakfast sandwich and Tommy got french toast. I wish the place was closer because it’s just so yummy.

    A little off topic but talking about how much fun going out on dates with Tommy reminds me that we’re joining this marriage class that our new church is doing for couples who are in their first 5 years of marriage. I’m really excited about it, but also a little nervous. It’s once a month for the next 6 months or so I believe, and I will definitely be blogging about that in the future. 😉

    The past month or so Tommy and I have been eating such yummy food. I’m actually planning on doing a Recipe Roundup post early next week and sharing all of the recipes that we are really enjoying. This dinner was extra special because I wasn’t feeling very well a few days ago and Tommy made this for us so that I could relax. The. Best.

    I’ve been having a rough week or so and I opened my Bible app the other day and found this verse as the verse of the day and I was so encouraged. I feel so lost sometimes because of not having a “normal” job, and I kept praying and asking God for some encouragement and I felt like this was him answering my prayer.

    I also realized (yet again) that I need to make some changes to my daily routine because my anxiety seems to be coming back some and I think it’s because I’m not leaving the house most days. I am going to commit to getting dressed and trying to leave the house at least 3 times per week because it helps so much. I have been putting off running errands lately and I’m not really sure why but it’s making my anxiety much worse.

    I’m linking up with these wonderful ladies today! Come join us! 🙂

  • Wedding

    Zinhobls Say I Do: Bridal Party

    I’m back again this Thursday to continue sharing wedding pictures. This week I’m sharing pictures of our wonderful bridal party! Next week it will be family pictures, then reception pictures, and I am still debating doing just a decorations picture post. Then to wrap up the series I am going to recap our honeymoon at the Dominican Republic! So we have about a month more of pictures! Hopefully you aren’t hating them. 😉

    Our Wonderful Bridal Party!

     

    My Bridesmaids

     

     

    My Maid of Honor and Cousin, Nichole!

     

    My Longtime Friend, Brooke!

     

    My cousin, Natasha!

     

    My Sister-In-Law Diana!

    I’m so thankful that these girls were there to stand up next to me on wedding day! They’re all so special to me!

    His Groomsmen

     

    Tommy’s Best Man, Matt

     

    Tommy’s Brother, Michael (This is the only picture we have of them together!!)

     

    Tommy’s Brother, Nick

     

    Tommy’s Friend, Colin

     

    My Brother, Dylan

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    So that would be it. Those are our quirky, fun friends! 😉

    Oh and we can’t forget our adorable Flower Girl and Ring Bearer of course!